10 Reasons Why Guys Dump Women — That Are Totally Your Fault @NILEVIBESMEDIA
#agabafrancis #nilevibemedia 10 Reasons Guys Dump You — That Are Totally Your Fault 1. The bad outweighs the good In most of the time there can be a lot of good thing and the worse activities during the process of dating and even after getting into a relationship. However the moment the bad outweighs the good there is no way on how such a relationship can succeed. Men decide to end their relationships when there are more times that you’re fighting than you are having fun. When the bad times are outweighing the good ones, most men think its time to call it quits. Why stay in a relationship that makes you miserable? 2. You were a placeholder A placeholder relationship is when one person is more committed than the other. In this example, the man is less committed than the woman and he’s just in the relationship out of convenience, likely until he finds someone better. If he ends your relationship seemingly out of nowhere, he probably found her. Its not easy to know whether the guy you have is mr right or you are his madam right. Sometimes you may be just passing time with hi for a matter of situation. In otherwise the moment he gets the one he has been waiting for , you will automatically have to sort yourself 3. Women who won't listen. When a man says something, give him a chance to speak. Listen to what he says. The problem is that sometimes, guys will end up with someone who makes him feel as though he doesn't know what he's talking about. We're not always right, but we do have opinions, and it gets under our skin when we're made to feel like our opinion doesn't matter. Who wants to stay with someone like that? 4. Being too dependent is not a good thing, either. I know it sounds like we can't make up our minds between numbers 6 and 7, but there is a balance. It's like we want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still let us know that there's a place in her life for us that only we can fill. You're not a child, and we don't expect to treat you like one or take care of you like one. If you come to a guy for every single thing, and can't seem to make up your mind or make decisions ... well, one day he will make up his mind and not come back. 5. Accusations If you're accusing your partner of something, then you're not open to listening, and they won't be either.Unless you have verifiable evidence that your partner is breaking your agreements, lying to you or cheating, chances are your accusations will push him or her further away 6. Ignore important information Don't dismiss reliable information when talking with your partner.If there are contradictions or things that don't add up about what your partner says, paying attention is key. If he or she is asking you for help in some way, be aware of that, too. 7. Interference with the rest of his life If your relationship is starting to negatively affect a man’s career, education, or relationships with their friends and family, he’s not likely to want to continue. Guys need fulfilling relationships with other people too, just like women do. If you’re too jealous or controlling or you’re both just spending too much time together, it may start to affect his other relationships. If that happens, you may be the one who gets cut from the team, so to speak. 8. Never developed deeper connections If you and your guy can’t ever get past the small talk stage, he might decide to find someone he can really connect with. Unfortunately, that isn’t you. You don’t have to have deep and meaningful conversations 24/7, but if you can’t have one at all, that’s a problem. 9. Never listen Men like to be in relationships that make them feel good. If your entire relationship consists of complaining about your co-workers or you’re constantly in a bad mood, he may decide that he doesn’t want to be around your negativity all the time. 10. Yo became the opposite of who he marriedA lot of people begin dating with certain expectations or beliefs about who the person is, usually based on superficial things like social media or text messaging. Even the first several dates aren’t always a good gauge of a person’s true personality because most people are on their best behavior. If your new boyfriend suddenly breaks up with you, it could be because he thought you a different type of person than you are. This could be because you presented yourself differently or it could just be because his perception of you was off in the beginning. #dating #lovematters #loveconnections #marriage
#agabafrancis #nilevibemedia 10 Reasons Guys Dump You — That Are Totally Your Fault 1. The bad outweighs the good In most of the time there can be a lot of good thing and the worse activities during the process of dating and even after getting into a relationship. However the moment the bad outweighs the good there is no way on how such a relationship can succeed. Men decide to end their relationships when there are more times that you’re fighting than you are having fun. When the bad times are outweighing the good ones, most men think its time to call it quits. Why stay in a relationship that makes you miserable? 2. You were a placeholder A placeholder relationship is when one person is more committed than the other. In this example, the man is less committed than the woman and he’s just in the relationship out of convenience, likely until he finds someone better. If he ends your relationship seemingly out of nowhere, he probably found her. Its not easy to know whether the guy you have is mr right or you are his madam right. Sometimes you may be just passing time with hi for a matter of situation. In otherwise the moment he gets the one he has been waiting for , you will automatically have to sort yourself 3. Women who won't listen. When a man says something, give him a chance to speak. Listen to what he says. The problem is that sometimes, guys will end up with someone who makes him feel as though he doesn't know what he's talking about. We're not always right, but we do have opinions, and it gets under our skin when we're made to feel like our opinion doesn't matter. Who wants to stay with someone like that? 4. Being too dependent is not a good thing, either. I know it sounds like we can't make up our minds between numbers 6 and 7, but there is a balance. It's like we want a grown woman who can handle her business, but still let us know that there's a place in her life for us that only we can fill. You're not a child, and we don't expect to treat you like one or take care of you like one. If you come to a guy for every single thing, and can't seem to make up your mind or make decisions ... well, one day he will make up his mind and not come back. 5. Accusations If you're accusing your partner of something, then you're not open to listening, and they won't be either.Unless you have verifiable evidence that your partner is breaking your agreements, lying to you or cheating, chances are your accusations will push him or her further away 6. Ignore important information Don't dismiss reliable information when talking with your partner.If there are contradictions or things that don't add up about what your partner says, paying attention is key. If he or she is asking you for help in some way, be aware of that, too. 7. Interference with the rest of his life If your relationship is starting to negatively affect a man’s career, education, or relationships with their friends and family, he’s not likely to want to continue. Guys need fulfilling relationships with other people too, just like women do. If you’re too jealous or controlling or you’re both just spending too much time together, it may start to affect his other relationships. If that happens, you may be the one who gets cut from the team, so to speak. 8. Never developed deeper connections If you and your guy can’t ever get past the small talk stage, he might decide to find someone he can really connect with. Unfortunately, that isn’t you. You don’t have to have deep and meaningful conversations 24/7, but if you can’t have one at all, that’s a problem. 9. Never listen Men like to be in relationships that make them feel good. If your entire relationship consists of complaining about your co-workers or you’re constantly in a bad mood, he may decide that he doesn’t want to be around your negativity all the time. 10. Yo became the opposite of who he marriedA lot of people begin dating with certain expectations or beliefs about who the person is, usually based on superficial things like social media or text messaging. Even the first several dates aren’t always a good gauge of a person’s true personality because most people are on their best behavior. If your new boyfriend suddenly breaks up with you, it could be because he thought you a different type of person than you are. This could be because you presented yourself differently or it could just be because his perception of you was off in the beginning. #dating #lovematters #loveconnections #marriage