142 | Rebooting your life after narcissistic abuse
In this episode DSD discusses how this experience is very similar to having to reboot a computer. At some point you have to make the decision that things just aren’t working right anymore and you have to “start fresh” to reboot your life. The first caller of the morning calls to clarify a comment in a previous show where they said they “don’t need DSD” anymore. The reality is that is the purpose of this show, to get people to a place where they are living their lives out from underneath toxic abuse. Duane then is asked how he was able to mentally able to “keep up” with all that was going on. The sad reality is he wasn’t and he shares ideas on how to help you get through it. We then have a caller who is struggling with their ex constantly trying to insert themselves into their lives. A listener then asks how does a parent start being involved when they haven’t been able to for a couple of years. Finally we tackle the question of when an ex “empowers” the children to decide to no longer follow a court order. ☎ 1-424-373-5483 or 1-424-DSD-LIVE International Calling use this for free calling ❋ https://www.callinstudio.com/show/dsdlive ❋ Support the Channel Donate through PayPal (https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=4XTY6LZGAFHUA) DSD Channel Memberships (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join) ☎ 1-424-373-5483 or 1-424-DSD-LIVE International Calling use this for free calling ❋ https://www.callinstudio.com/show/dsdlive Sign up for text notifications ☎ Text "DSDLIVE" to (844) 598-0012 ☎ For one on one coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/ ❋ The M.E.A.N Workbook - https://gumroad.com/a/463385715/jkSo 📖 Table of Contents 00:00 - Start of Show 02:59 - Discussion - Rebooting your life 10:51 - Caller - Getting your life back! 21:06 - Discussion - It’s a compliment when people don’t need DSD anymore! 22:21 - Discussion - Finding member only events 24:20 - Question - How to mentally keep up with everything when this starts 29:09 - Discussion - Finding your pathway through and realizing there is hope 33:38 - Question - How do you store your videos? 34:38 - Caller - Ex keeps trying to create problems 48:14 - Discussion - Ways to minimize their negative influence on your life 51:00 - Question - How does a parent start being involved when they haven’t been for years 53:47 - Question - Ex says kids can decide to choose to visit dad? 59:43 - End of show wrap-up 🔗 Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord (https://discord.gg/hn9jE9x) DSD Channel Memberships (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join) ⚠️DISCLAIMER - Links used in this description are affiliate links and if used a small commission will help support this channel. Use of these links do not change the cost of the items purchased. ⚠️DISCLAIMER - I am not a therapist, licensed counselor, or attorney. My thoughts are my own opinions from my personal experience. You should consult a professional when you are changing your treatment or making legal decisions. This channel and companion website are for informational purposes only. Links to find out more! ❋ YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/dadsurvivingdivorce ❋ Website - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com ❋ Hypnosis - http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis ❋ DSD Discord - https://discord.com/invite/hn9jE9x 📨 Send Mail To: Duane DSD P.O. Box 225 Edwards, CA 93523 📨Email To: duane@dadsurvivingdivorce.com 🕸Website: https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com 🎙Podcast: https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/podcast/ ☎ Coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/ #DSD #DSDLIVE
In this episode DSD discusses how this experience is very similar to having to reboot a computer. At some point you have to make the decision that things just aren’t working right anymore and you have to “start fresh” to reboot your life. The first caller of the morning calls to clarify a comment in a previous show where they said they “don’t need DSD” anymore. The reality is that is the purpose of this show, to get people to a place where they are living their lives out from underneath toxic abuse. Duane then is asked how he was able to mentally able to “keep up” with all that was going on. The sad reality is he wasn’t and he shares ideas on how to help you get through it. We then have a caller who is struggling with their ex constantly trying to insert themselves into their lives. A listener then asks how does a parent start being involved when they haven’t been able to for a couple of years. Finally we tackle the question of when an ex “empowers” the children to decide to no longer follow a court order. ☎ 1-424-373-5483 or 1-424-DSD-LIVE International Calling use this for free calling ❋ https://www.callinstudio.com/show/dsdlive ❋ Support the Channel Donate through PayPal (https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=4XTY6LZGAFHUA) DSD Channel Memberships (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join) ☎ 1-424-373-5483 or 1-424-DSD-LIVE International Calling use this for free calling ❋ https://www.callinstudio.com/show/dsdlive Sign up for text notifications ☎ Text "DSDLIVE" to (844) 598-0012 ☎ For one on one coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/ ❋ The M.E.A.N Workbook - https://gumroad.com/a/463385715/jkSo 📖 Table of Contents 00:00 - Start of Show 02:59 - Discussion - Rebooting your life 10:51 - Caller - Getting your life back! 21:06 - Discussion - It’s a compliment when people don’t need DSD anymore! 22:21 - Discussion - Finding member only events 24:20 - Question - How to mentally keep up with everything when this starts 29:09 - Discussion - Finding your pathway through and realizing there is hope 33:38 - Question - How do you store your videos? 34:38 - Caller - Ex keeps trying to create problems 48:14 - Discussion - Ways to minimize their negative influence on your life 51:00 - Question - How does a parent start being involved when they haven’t been for years 53:47 - Question - Ex says kids can decide to choose to visit dad? 59:43 - End of show wrap-up 🔗 Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord (https://discord.gg/hn9jE9x) DSD Channel Memberships (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw/join) ⚠️DISCLAIMER - Links used in this description are affiliate links and if used a small commission will help support this channel. Use of these links do not change the cost of the items purchased. ⚠️DISCLAIMER - I am not a therapist, licensed counselor, or attorney. My thoughts are my own opinions from my personal experience. You should consult a professional when you are changing your treatment or making legal decisions. This channel and companion website are for informational purposes only. Links to find out more! ❋ YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/dadsurvivingdivorce ❋ Website - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com ❋ Hypnosis - http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis ❋ DSD Discord - https://discord.com/invite/hn9jE9x 📨 Send Mail To: Duane DSD P.O. Box 225 Edwards, CA 93523 📨Email To: duane@dadsurvivingdivorce.com 🕸Website: https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com 🎙Podcast: https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/podcast/ ☎ Coaching - https://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/coaching/ #DSD #DSDLIVE